ok I finally got everything working, will attempt to write a guide here with steps to take starting from scratch, this is exactly what I did.
my setup:
75ghz 2k monitor + tasoller on stock 2.0 firmware (set to 32key, it functions like a keyboard)
note: I am aware there is other ways to set up the controls with tasoller, I chose to stick with the stock 2.0 firmware and not install a custom firmware, if you wish to use a custom firmware the instructions here will not work for you
1. download the entire pack found in this comment:
2. update your Java to v11 or later, update directX and C++ package (you most likely dont need to do this step, but if you get errors try this first)
3. download aqua 0.0.31 (you can find the link on this forum somewhere)
3. in config/application.properties in aqua, for `allnet.server.host` (should be line 14), set that equal to your own IP, (type `ipconfig` in a cmd prompt to find it), leave everything else default
4. in the chunithm download bin folder, edit your segatools.ini, following the instructions in the file, make sure you properly set the following: amfs, option, appdata, dns (use the ip you used above)
set windows=1 and framed=0
for [io3] change them to something else so they dont conflict with your tasoller, I used:, they are F1 F2 and F3
test=0x70
service=0x71
coin=0x72
enable fps120 and cvtmode, set them to 1, [aime] should be aimePath=DEVICE\aime.txt
now paste this in below
[slider]
cell32=0x31
cell31=0x41
cell30=0x51
cell29=0x5A
cell28=0x32
cell27=0x53
cell26=0x57
cell25=0x58
cell24=0x33
cell23=0x44
cell22=0x45
cell21=0x43
cell20=0x34
cell19=0x46
cell18=0x52
cell17=0x56
cell16=0x35
cell15=0x47
cell14=0x54
cell13=0x42
cell12=0x36
cell11=0x48
cell10=0x59
cell9=0x4E
cell8=0x37
cell7=0x4A
cell6=0x55
cell5=0x4D
cell4=0x38
cell3=0x4B
cell2=0x49
cell1=0xBC
[ir]
ir6=0xdd
ir5=0xdb
ir1=0xbe
ir2=0xbf
ir3=0xba
ir4=0xde
and get rid of [newio86] [newio64]
5. in your DEVICE folder, create a new file called aime.txt, in the file type in 20 random numbers
6. in your chunithm folder, find the "ChunithmNEW plus tools" folder, open the webpage, find your chusanApp in your bin folder and drag it in, make sure all checkboxes are checked except "force 2 channel audio", save this file and overrwite the old one.
7. optionally add in additional data to your "option" folder, you can find a link somewhere in this topic.
8. the top post of this topic, download "chusanhook.7z", move the following files into your bin folder and overwrite(both chusanhook files, both inject files, dont move anything else)
9. make sure your monitor satisfies the following: 60hz, 1920x1080 res. (reduce them in display options if your monitor is higher refresh or res.)
10. download the converter this guy made: (otherwise the IR sensor, your hand hovering, will not work in the game)
11. run aqua (if not already), run the exe from above (yes its just a blank box), and then run your game with start.bat
ENJOY!
(yes the LED will error, you can just skip it, hold ENTER on your keyboard to start your aime card)